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Again, remember that L/ladies will be overwhelmed by the number of answers to T/their ads while M/men will be waiting to a reply to T/their ads. These gatherings are usually in the form of a munch where P/people in the BDSM lifestyle meet in a non-threatening situation.Usually there is no dress code and these meetings are oriented so P/people can talk and exchange views on the lifestyle.According to O/our experience there is always more Doms present in these gathering then subs. - Play party (private or public): The public party is often advertised on the net or in specialized magazines. This is the problem with these parties; many people go to these parties but many P/players don't. Except for a very few places, there is not enough intimacy for many P/players, so T/they prefer to go to private parties.To make things worse, often the P/people who go to these parties, go with P/partners already.
W/we are not talking about public play here, but many men are scared to admit that they are submissive. If the refuse to show up in a public place for the first meeting with You, how can You trust that man to do anything else in play! Because there are 4 men to every submissive woman in the lifestyle, it makes the search hard. There are always a lot more ads for male Doms looking for a female submissive then there are ads for female submissive doing a search for a Dom.While writing these lines W/we are looking at three emails W/we received lately.They are like many others W/we have received and that W/we will probably receive; all asking how to find a BDSM partner.Not proving it or refusing to share pictures means that you would be assumed to be male and only pretending to be female for the attention or (if in a game) free items.For real women, even a vague mention of a boyfriend or husband as an aside would get these righteous Internet College Males screeching in rage that you were an evil Attention Whore pretending to be female to get things.
For security and social reasons, women are less likely to "come out of the closet" as BDSM players. There are many many male subs for every female Domme, W/we have heard estimates of as high as 100 to 1.